Here’s what I’m thinking right now: "This is the day that the Lord has made, let us rejoice and be glad in it", Psalm 118:24

Opening music: Psalm 118 from Isaac’s Emerging Psalter

Remembering: Read text of the psalm together

Thinking: Reflect on historic events related to July 15

Activity: Write yourself a letter for a future July 15th. Seal it and date it. Then, final sharing and pray together…

Closing: The upbeat gospel song based on this verse

Please send your comments and suggestions, what you notice and what you imagine, to epiphany.ny@gmail.com

Dear friends, Paul and I are planning a ritual around Jesus’ story of the sower, the seeds, and the good soil. Please see draft 1.0 below and post a comment… what do you notice? Email bowie@faithhousemanhattan.org for directions if you’d like to come on Friday, May 15th at 7 PM.

Opening
Paul awakens our wonder with a “fool’s mass” of garden items

Remembering
Someone reads Gospel story about sower, seeds and soil
Second Reading Genesis 1

Thinking
Group discussion

Doing
Bowie helps people put together bags of seeds and soil, offers ideas on sowing.

Departing
Group prayers and blessings on our bags

A quiet, meditative evening to reflect on waiting… in silence and darkness, and waiting… for a miracle to come. ¬†We will read Luke Chapter 1 and selections from the Prophet Isaiah, interspersed with songs, silence, sharing, and activities.¬† Music ranging from O Come O Come Emmanuel to Coldplay.

Featuring Emergent Church leaders Tony Jones, Doug Pagitt and Mark Scandrette
When: Friday, August 1 at 7:00pm
Where: Marble Collegiate Church, 5th Ave between 29th and 30th

Bowie is going and would love to see you there!

FACEBOOK Event – sign up and invite your friends!

1) Where the Hell is Jesus?

A video response to: Where the Hell is Matt?

2) “Jesus” by the Velvet Underground

With footage from the Passion Movie

I asked a variety of people where empathy shows up in their interactions with people and how they deepen their sense of empathy? Some said empathizing is a deliberate choice and critical challenge. Others talked about “quieting the noise of the world” to listen and be present to Christ in the Other. The quotes below show us many ways we enter into each other’s stories.

The Rt. Rev. Jeffery Lee
Bishop of Chicago, Consecrated February 2, 2008

The word empathy can easily become an effective way to cover up my own anxiety in the face of someone else’s suffering ‚Äì ‚ÄúI feel your pain.‚Äù The truth is the only pain I can really feel is my own. What I can do is to choose not to run away from your pain. I can choose to accompany you in it. I can demonstrate to you that I will not leave you and that together we might find a way through pain and suffering to new life. Empathy isn’t a feeling; it’s a decision.

Mel Ahlborn
President of the Board of The Episcopal Church and Visual Arts (ECVA)
Principle of MB Ahlborn Illumination, an artist studio opened 1989, San Francisco, CA

Empathy is a natural part of my creative process. It’s like an unseen rhythm, the tide that balances and shifts as I move through each day. If you could peel away the outer layers of my life as a working artist, you would see a lot of intention to listen to and join with the people that I work with, care for and serve. Empathy is walking a mile in the other person’s shoes, not as a glossy metaphor but as a warm companionship that leads to meeting and greeting Christ in each person I encounter. And like any spiritual discipline, empathy is a practice that grows, bears fruit, and casts its seeds into the wind.

Sister Diana Dorothea
Community of the Transfiguration, Cincinnati, OH

The difference between “professional” empathy – “I feel your pain” – and God’s graced empathy is willingness. My need for empathy is greatest when I want it least – facing another’s anger or hurtful behavior. If I can shoot a prayer between defenses asking for grace to understand in love, usually over the next few days or weeks, memories of my own similar behavior surface, with new insights, allowing true sharing of the other’s pain.

The Rev. Amy McCreath
Episcopal Campus Minister at MIT, Cambridge, MA

The students with whom I work, who are scientists and engineers, are very articulate about material matters and technical problems. But they often feel intimidated by discussion of the ineffable mysteries of faith. They grow quiet when asked to articulate their spiritual questions. As it turns out, I feel the same way about science and engineering as they do about matters spiritual: I’m intrigued, but intimidated. Drawn in, but inarticulate.

Once we named this dual reality, we were all able to relax and patiently start to learn the other’s language. Empathy has allowed me to be a better chaplain to them. It has challenged me to develop new ways of communicating my faith and God’s invitation to them. And while I’ll never *really* understand genomic biology or psychopharmacology, I know enough now to affirm my students as they live into their vocations in areas like these.

The Rev. Cn. Mary Moreno-Richardson
Canon for Hispanic Ministry, Diocese of San Diego, CA

Part of my ministry focuses on the needs of Latina youth in the Guadalupe Art Program, as well as the pastoral crisis faced by detained undocumented youth and the victims of human trafficking. These children are on an incredible journey from brokenness to reclaiming their true identity – knowing they are created in the image of the Divine. My sense of empathy is deepened by serving these injured souls and witnessing the healing power of the transforming Holy Spirit.

Javier Rivera-Gerena
Engineer, Geographic Information Systems (GIS)
Pianist at San Judas Tadeo, Aibonito, Puerto Rico

`Lord, when saw we Thee hungering and fed Thee, or thirsty and gave Thee drink? When saw we Thee a stranger and took Thee in, or naked and clothed Thee? Or when saw we Thee sick, or in prison, and came unto Thee?’ And the King shall answer and say unto them, `Verily I say unto you, inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these My brethren, ye have done it unto Me.’

To demonstrate empathy is to perform the best approximation of the love of Jesus anyone can achieve. But to do so requires from us to detach from ourselves and act with honesty and commitment. Jesus actually wearied our shoes His whole life and committed to our cause to the end. But happens that there is too much noise everywhere. A deafening, entertaining, mesmerizing and almost omnipresent noise alienating our hearts from the rest of the world and obstructing us from noticing all the opportunities God insistently is giving us every day for showing the evidence of His love with our empathy. Empathy can show-up in our immediate environment in the most simple and modest things. Sharing our knowledge with our co-workers and helping them improve and do a better job is good example to begin with. Let us pay attention and be alert to notice and identify these opportunities, quieting the noise of the world with our prayers.

The Rev. Ian Mobsby
Missioner to Moot, A“Fresh Expressions” Community, in London, UK

Much of my work life as an Ordained Missioner in Central London concerns expressing unconditional love and understanding, as I attempt to live out what Christ calls us all to live in the New Command to love God and love our neighbor, which in reality is about trying to catch up with what God is already doing. London is not a very loving place, there is a harshness to the city, so living this way is difficult. But – there are moments when empathy breaks in – such as the good will between people that occurs in difficult times such as the London Tube Bombings several years ago, or when talking to the Homeless seller of the Big Issue by the local supermarket, the look on children’s faces at Holy Communion in the local school assembly, the look on people’s faces when you show kindness such as giving up your seat on the train or bus for an older person, encouraging those to keep going who suffer with depression and anxiety. It is in these little things, that real empathy is shared. So my ministry is about expressing empathy as God seeks to reconcile all back into restored relationship with the Godhead.

For me, empathy finds its origin in the Trinitarian Godhead. That the perfect love and justice expressed in the persons of Creator, Redeemer, and Companion is the source for all empathy. So for me, forms of contemplative prayer and worship are about God inviting us to join in this perfect community relationally that affirms who we are and enables us to truly love others through the love of God. So some of the ancient forms of contemplative prayer reframed into a postmodern context enable me to love in an overly busy and complex world. Additionally, for me, in the belief that the Holy Spirit is very present in our culture – I meet Christ through conversations with those on the margins, the poor, the sick, and excluded. Shockingly – I often meet God’s love through the power of the Spirit and in union with Christ in the Father in the faces and voices of the homeless and children that I meet – this enables me to truly love.

Austin T. Tuning
Jubilee Officer, Diocese of Lexington, KY

We are all member of God’s family, created in His image. Although divided by race, culture, and geography, our lives are fashioned by a life time of human experiences, leaving each of us with our perceptions of justice. It is through these experiences that, hopefully, we come to interact with one another with loving concern and compassionate understanding. The latter is what I choose to call ‘empathy’ – a sincere attempt to see and understand situations through the eyes and experiences of another person.

Recently, a grocery store clerk felt the need to tell me about the death of her sister in a house fire. At the time she had gone sleepless for quite a while imagining what it must have been like for her sister to die that way. Feeling her anguish, I suggested in a written note to her a few days later that she focus her attention on the love and joy that she and her sister shared; take time to write of those wonderful memories in a letter to her sister; and finally, be thankful that God was there with her sister as He is with each of us during every moment of our lives.

Showing we really care about the concerns of others is one of the ways we can deepen our empathy for others.

Eliyanna Kaiser
Executive Editor, $pread Magazine www.spreadmagazine.org

$pread Magazine is a quarterly publication produced by and for those that work in the sex industry and others that support their rights. The whole idea behind the magazine is to provide a space for sex workers to express for themselves what their lives are like and what they think about their work. We do this precisely because we are so critical of empathy, and of the idea in general that others who have never done sex work are capable of imagining themselves in the situations of sex workers. Many well-meaning people try to speak for sex workers claiming to empathize with their lives and experiences. But the only people truly qualified to describe the experiences of sex workers – the good, the bad, and the outrageous – are sex workers themselves.

As an editor of $pread Magazine, my job is to work with sex workers, many of whom are first time writers, to help them tell their story or give their experience-based perspective. For some people, this sort of writing is challenging on a number of levels. I try to listen very carefully to their voice in their writing and make sure that my editing of that writer’s contribution is still authentic to their experience. Trying to achieve empathy is important in that. The all-volunteer staff of $pread Magazine has a leg-up on that because the vast majority of us are sex workers, former sex workers, and the rest of us have worked with that community closely for a long time. The path to empathy must cede self-determination to ensure that empathy is not a buzz-word that “progressives” use to claim ownership overs someone else’s experience or story. For sex workers, that is an all too common theme.

Erin Keeney
TV Reporter and Producer, New York, NY

I find that empathy and good journalism are fundamentally intertwined. As a reporter and producer, I’m essentially a storyteller. It’s my job to imagine the world through someone else’s eyes, and give a voice to someone else’s narrative. It’s impossible to tell a good story–especially someone else’s story–without trying to understand the subject’s situation, and identifying with them as a sensitive and compassionate human being.

I think that empathy is the foundation for good journalism. And while I find empathy is my strongest tool in writing a good story, I also find it provides me the biggest challenges in my work. When I’m in the field, I’m constantly trying to nullify my own presence and perspective to ensure someone’s story is told without my interference. I find that difficult sometimes, only because journalism isn’t a science. Journalism is a craft involving human beings sharing stories with human beings. I’m always trying to earn someone else’s trust, and understand someone else’s feelings and motives and what makes them tick.

I find that my empathy for others has become more authentic and more rich the more I experience in my personal life and in the field. Studying empathy in a lecture hall in journalism school did nothing for me. I learn the most when I’m embedded in someone else’s day-to-day minutia or experiencing with them an extraordinary event. Listening, and practicing listening without judgment every day on every assignment is what helps me deepen my sense of empathy.

There isn’t one person I’ve written about or interviewed that hasn’t left a mark on me and shaped my perspective on things in some way. Some have resonated with me more deeply than others, of course, but none has left me unchanged. One thing I’m continuing to learn is that what binds us together is much stronger than what separates us. Each person’s story is different, but they are all threaded together with the same themes…love, loss, joy, pain, fear.

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Our dear friend Mel Ahlborn made this super cool and a little trippy flash video of last year’s Easter at Avalon. It takes a minute to load, but then get ready for a smooth ride…

Happy Easter! Christ is Risen! Alleluia.

VI: detail, originally uploaded by bowiesnodgrass.

Transmission collaborated with Sanctuary to create installations of the fourteen traditional Stations of the Cross. Isaac, Katherine, Aaron, Bowie, and Sarah made stations. Sarah, technically, was a stations, falling and rising and falling again to represent “Jesus falls a second time.”

You can listen to the soundtrack of the evening by scrolling back to Isaac’s post from Good Friday last year.